How Reiki Opens Your Heart and Connects You to Higher Self
- Nora Coaching

- Jul 16, 2025
- 6 min read
My hands were trembling the first time I placed them on my own heart during a Reiki session. Not from nerves – from something else entirely. Something that felt like recognition.
There's this moment in Reiki practice when the energy starts flowing and you realize you're not just moving universal life force through your palms. You're actually having a conversation with parts of yourself you'd forgotten existed. The heart chakra begins to warm, sometimes almost uncomfortably so, and suddenly you're face-to-face with your own higher self. Not in some mystical, out-of-body way. More like... remembering who you were before life taught you to dim your light.
What Happens When Reiki Activates Your Heart Chakra
The heart chakra – Anahata in Sanskrit – sits right there in your chest like a green spinning wheel of possibility. When Reiki energy flows through it, things get interesting fast. I've watched people's shoulders drop mid-session as decades of held tension just... releases. Their breathing deepens. Sometimes they cry, but not sad tears. More like relief tears.
Reiki doesn't force anything open. That's not how it works. Instead, it creates this gentle, persistent invitation for your heart to remember its natural state of openness. Think of it like warm sunlight on a closed flower bud. The bud doesn't have to struggle or force itself open – the warmth just naturally encourages what was already wanting to happen.
When your heart chakra starts activating during Reiki, you might feel:
Warmth spreading across your chest (sometimes almost hot)
Emotional releases that seem to come from nowhere
A sudden awareness of love you'd been blocking
Physical sensations like tingling or gentle pressure
An unexpected surge of compassion – for yourself and others
That weird but wonderful feeling of your heart "expanding"
Sarah, one of my regular clients, described it perfectly: "It's like my heart remembered how to breathe." She'd come in carrying months of grief after her mom passed, her chest tight and guarded. Three sessions in, something shifted. Not that the grief disappeared – grief doesn't work that way. But her heart opened enough to hold both the sadness and the love at the same time.
The thing about heart chakra activation is it's not always comfortable. Love isn't always comfortable. Opening isn't always comfortable. But comfortable isn't the goal here. Wholeness is.
How Reiki Aligns You with Your Higher Self
Okay, let's talk about the higher self for a minute. I know it sounds all woo-woo and mystical, but honestly? It's way more practical than that. Your higher self is just the version of you that isn't caught up in yesterday's mistakes or tomorrow's anxieties. It's the you that knows things before your thinking mind catches up.
Reiki creates this bridge between your everyday consciousness and that deeper knowing. It's like tuning into a radio station that was always broadcasting – you just couldn't hear it clearly through all the static.
During Reiki sessions, I've noticed people's faces change when they connect with their higher self. There's this moment of recognition, almost like they're meeting an old friend they'd forgotten about. Their breathing shifts. Their whole energy field seems to settle into something more... authentic.
This alignment happens gradually, then suddenly. You'll be lying there, feeling the gentle warmth of Reiki energy moving through your body, and then – oh. There it is. That quiet voice that's been trying to get your attention for months. The one that knows exactly what you need to do about that relationship, that job, that creative project you've been avoiding.
Mark came to me feeling completely disconnected from himself. Corporate lawyer, successful by every external measure, but walking around like a ghost in his own life. "I don't even know who I am anymore," he told me during our first session. Three months of regular Reiki later, he'd left the law firm and started teaching music again. "I remembered who I was before I became who I thought I should be," he said.
The higher self isn't some perfect, enlightened version of you floating around in the ethers. It's just you without all the conditioning, the fear-based decisions, the stories you tell yourself about what's possible. Reiki helps dissolve those layers of accumulated "stuff" so your authentic self can emerge.
The Heart-Higher Self Connection in Reiki Practice
Here's where things get really interesting. Your heart chakra and your higher self aren't separate things – they're intimately connected. The heart is actually one of the main access points to higher consciousness. Not the brain, despite what we've been taught. The heart.
Science backs this up, by the way. The heart has its own neural network – literally tens of thousands of neurons. It processes information and makes decisions. It communicates with the brain through multiple pathways. When your heart is open and activated, you're literally thinking with a different kind of intelligence.
During Reiki, as the heart chakra opens, it creates this clear channel for higher guidance to flow through. I've seen it happen countless times. Someone will be in the middle of a session, tears streaming down their face (in a good way), and suddenly they'll whisper, "Oh my god, I know what I need to do."
That's not coincidence. That's the heart and higher self working together, communicating through the gentle facilitation of Reiki energy.
The process usually unfolds like this:
1. Reiki energy begins flowing, activating and clearing the heart chakra
2. Emotional blocks start dissolving (this might feel intense but is totally normal)
3. As the heart opens, it creates space for higher wisdom to emerge
4. The connection between heart and higher self strengthens
5. You start receiving guidance that feels both surprising and deeply familiar
I remember one session where I was working on myself, hands placed over my heart, when suddenly I understood something about a friendship that had been troubling me for months. Not thought through it or analyzed it – just knew. My heart had been trying to tell me for ages, but I'd been too caught up in my head to listen.
Practical Ways to Deepen This Connection
Look, you don't need to be a Reiki master or have years of training to start working with this heart-higher self connection. Some of the most profound healing happens in the simplest moments.
Start with basic self-Reiki on your heart. Place one hand on your chest, one on your upper back if you can reach, or both hands over your heart. Close your eyes. Breathe. Don't try to make anything happen – just offer yourself this gentle attention. Set an intention for your heart to open to whatever it needs, for connection with your highest good.
The key is consistency, not perfection. Even five minutes a day of placing loving attention on your heart creates change over time. I've had clients tell me that this simple practice shifted their entire relationship with themselves.
Pay attention to what comes up during these moments. Not just thoughts, but feelings, images, body sensations, sudden knowing. Your higher self speaks in whispers, not shouts. It communicates through subtle shifts in energy, through synchronicities, through that quiet voice that says "yes" or "not this" before your rational mind can interfere.
Another powerful practice: Ask your higher self direct questions while channeling Reiki to your heart. "What do I need to know right now?" "How can I best serve my healing?" "What wants to emerge in my life?" Then listen. Really listen. Not with your ears – with your entire being.
Journal after your Reiki sessions. Often the insights come not during the session but in the integration afterward. Write whatever comes, even if it seems random or doesn't make logical sense. The higher self doesn't always speak in complete sentences or logical progression.
Remember, this isn't about getting dramatic revelations or life-changing downloads every time (though those can happen). Most of the time it's subtler. A slight shift in perspective. A softening around something you've been holding tightly. A sense of coming home to yourself.
Trust what you receive, even if it challenges your current understanding. Especially then. Your higher self sees patterns and possibilities your everyday mind can't access. It's not bound by your limiting beliefs or past experiences. It knows who you're becoming, not just who you've been.
The beautiful thing about working with Reiki this way is that it's cumulative. Each session builds on the last. Each moment of heart opening creates more capacity for connection with your authentic self. Each time you choose to listen to that deeper wisdom, the voice gets a little clearer, a little more accessible.
So maybe tonight, before you scroll through your phone or watch another episode of whatever, try placing your hands on your heart. Breathe into that space. See what wants to be heard. Your higher self has been waiting patiently for this conversation.
What would it be like to live from that place of knowing, even just a little bit more each day?
Nora Coaching
www.noracoaching.com
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